Fang.. try to remember ok? lol..
Removing Shoes
Do not take off your shoes until your chinese wedding ceremony is over. The modern custom is to remove the wedding shoes only after returning to the groom's home or bridal home after the bride's home visit to her parent's home
(i didnt take off until i completed EVERYTHING (morning).. i took off only when i went back hotel to get ready for banquet)
Bridal Bed
It is preferred that no one sleeps or sits on the bridal bed after its installation and blessing for fertility. If however, the groom needs to sleep on it before the wedding he should be accompanied by a young boy preferably born in the year of the Dragon. To leave one side of the bridal bed empty is considered a curse on the health of the couple.
Taking care of Roast Pig
If a roast pig is included as part of the bride’s home visit gifts, be careful not to break the ears or tails accidentally. An imperfect roast pig implies that the bride is not a virgin. >> er... remember the roast pig = to the pig leg? they symbolise the same thing.. the chasity of the bride
thats all for now.. hahaha
Flat Shoes